Do you want to boost your chances of achieving an orgasm or are you seeking a more powerful climax? Then an anal orgasm could be just what you need! Your anus is filled with numerous nerve endings that can be aroused in various ways. In this blog, we'll guide you on how to do that, but first, we'll explain exactly how an anal orgasm works.
About the anal orgasm
Let's be clear: the idea of having an orgasm only from anal sex is actually a myth. This might surprise you, but it makes sense. Even though your anus has lots of nerve endings, those nerves aren't mainly meant for orgasms. On the other hand, the vagina, clitoris, glans, and prostate are designed for that.
The number one essential for anal play: plenty of lubricant
Make sure your fingers, anus, and any sex toys are always well-lubricated. Remember, unlike the vagina, the anus does not naturally lubricate itself. To avoid discomfort and make things smoother, using lubricant is essential. Pick a thick lube that lasts a long time. There are special gels made just for anal play, perfect for the sensitive skin around the anus. Be careful with silicone-based lubes if you’re using silicone toys, they can react and damage your toys. Safety first, always!
Tips: anal orgasm for women
It's unlikely that you will achieve an anal orgasm from anal stimulation alone. Therefore, it's important to also stimulate your vagina and/or clitoris. Find what feels best for you. For instance, you might enjoy using your fingers, a clitoris vibrator, or a mini vibrator on your clitoris or vagina while massaging your anus with a toy using your other hand.
Clitoris, vagina and anus at the same time
Your orgasm can become much more intense if you stimulate your clitoris, vagina, and anus simultaneously. While it might be challenging to massage these three areas with just your hands, don’t worry! There are sex toys available that can stimulate all these erogenous zones at the same time. You can enjoy this solo or with a partner, making the experience even more pleasurable and intimate.
Double vibrators: If you’re looking for a toy that doesn’t require manual movement or offers more than just penetration, a trio vibrator is perfect for you. Many trio vibrators are similar to rabbit vibrators but include an additional feature: an anal stimulator. This stimulator might have a small anal chain or a nub that massages the outside of your sphincter.
Double dildo: A double dildo is a sex toy with two ends, often with one end being narrower than the other, making it ideal for double penetration. Insert the thicker part into your vagina and the thinner part into your anus. You can use one hand to massage your clitoris while using the other hand to move the dildo. For comfort, try lying on your back or side.
Tips: anal orgasm for man
Anal sex is for men of all sexual orientations, whether you are homosexual or heterosexual. Men can enjoy anal stimulation in various ways. Adding anal play can boost your orgasm, especially when you stimulate your glans before and during climax. For example, you can use an anal sex toy during solo moments or partner play to achieve an intense orgasm. Explore new sensations and fully enjoy your sexual adventures, whether alone or with a partner!
Prostate massage
As a man, you may have heard about or even tried massaging your prostate. The prostate is a small organ that produces and transports semen. It’s very sensitive and can be felt about 5 centimetres inside your anus, towards your stomach. This spot is known as the P-spot. Massaging the prostate can lead to intense and amazing orgasms. You can use your fingers, but there are also special toys designed to make prostate massage easier and more enjoyable.
Prostate toys
Prostate vibrators: If you want more than just a massage, there are special prostate vibrators. These toys not only allow for up-and-down movement but also have vibrations that provide extra stimulation to the prostate, potentially making your orgasm even more intense!
Prostate dildos: Prostate dildos have a curved tip to easily reach and massage the prostate. You can move the dildo up and down to stimulate the right spot.
Anal toys for women and men
You can use your fingers to stimulate your anus, but your nails might be too sharp for the sensitive skin around your sphincter. It's better to use a special anal toy. Don’t use toys that aren’t made for anal play because they can slip inside since they usually don’t have a flared base. There are many suitable anal toys available, such as:
A butt plug
You can insert an anal plug and leave it in place without needing to move it. A butt plug is perfect if you enjoy a feeling of fullness or don't want to actively play with your anus. We recommend the butt plug set from Anal Adventures. These plugs are easy to insert, and the different sizes allow you to gradually move to larger ones.
Anal orgasm with vibrating anal toys
These toys are perfect if you don't necessarily want to insert anything but still want to stimulate your anus. For example, you can hold an anal vibrator against your sphincter to stimulate the nerves in that area. If you prefer, you can also insert the toy. The vibrations not only feel good but also help relax the muscles in and around your anus.
Anal dildo
Do you have more experience with anal play? Then you might want to try an anal dildo. Choose a model that is no thicker than 3 centimeters in diameter, as that size is usually sufficient. You can move the dildo slowly up and down to stimulate your sphincter, or you can rotate it in small circles to massage the inside of your rectum.
Tip! As you get closer to your orgasm, try increasing the pace of stimulation.
Anal orgasm through chain/bead
If you want to be more active with anal play, an anal chain is a great choice. An anal chain consists of beads that usually get larger towards the end. Using anal beads can help you stretch your sphincter comfortably and gradually.
Tip! Do you feel your orgasm coming? Then slowly remove/pull out the anal chain. The beads will wonderfully stimulate the nerves in your anus.
Discover the excitement of new sensations and push your limits! Anal orgasms can unlock intense pleasure and take your sexual experiences to new heights. Don’t hold back—explore, experiment, and embrace your desires. Your pleasure is yours to claim!
